Friday, 14 September 2012

The world just keeps piling the stress on...

I've been hiding.

It hasn't helped.

Instead, I've found myself not sleeping, fidgeting, sad, tearful, and generally stressed out to the back teeth.


Let's just say that abuse doesn't stop just because a judge signs divorce papers.
It might stop when either he or I die.

I had a feeling that something was about to happen a few weeks ago.  And then some paperwork was delivered to me.

He Who Does Not Deserve Respect wants money.  I thought the divorce papers agreed that neither one of us would go to the other wanting support...but now he's changed his mind.

In my absence, because of course I can't get to the States that easily, the court has set the amount I am supposed to pay him monthly at something extortionate.

If I don't get it changed, I will not be able to stay in my flat.

Essentially, I'd be made homeless.

So, you see..that's where the stress is coming from.  I've been growing to love this little place of mine.. 

Stress isn't good for my health.  Walking, typing, knitting...everything is too hard right now.

I'm in a sorry state, and this is not a very happy apologies.

I wish a more peaceful existence to all of you..and if you have any extra peace which you could send my way, please do! 

It's hard for me to adopt any notion of peace right now, but without wishing to sound like a hypocrite...



  1. I will meditate on peace directed your way. Life is tough at times, I know. I've been there. Peace is at hand, and nearer to you than you might think right now. Breathe deep, meditate, you will be okay. My best wishes to you.

  2. Life is often unjust. Do not feel that justice is necessary. There are very often times when it is better to accept injustice. Tell the world of your injustice through your blog and that can help get it out of your system. You will find endless peace in your animal friends who are always happy to pass it on to you. I wish peace and happiness for you :)